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Not so healthy of late!

March 6th, 2006 at 11:50 pm

Well the extra work I was counting on never materialized so I am tightening the belt a little further. Heres a hope that my face does not turn blue!

I had some health issues as well and that did not help.I really could not have done the extra work even if I had wanted to do so.

My spending is still basically at life support levels and that is pretty much it. I am still looking for any way to save a penny and cut existing costs further. My wife is still clipping coupons and looking for sales. I think the grocery bill of 650 per month is still too high and it is still a bone of contention. Prices have gone up but I believe it is still possible to save money if one really wants to.

The utility bills are running just 37 dollars over last years bill total. I think this is because of a milder winter and our turning down the thermostat a bit more.

I can't wait for the winter to be over! It weighs very heavy on me. Geez! It seems all I do is penny pinch and payt down debt. I can't wait to be out from under!

Back to the grindstone! I hope it all works out in the end!

Coupons and other things!

January 26th, 2006 at 06:37 pm

Well my wife saved about 24 dollars yesterday with coupons and store specials. Why the filters for our coffee maker turned out to cost only 14 cents. It has taken some doing but we are turning the corner on the shopping issue.

The heating and electric bill was only up slightly from last year(about 17 dollars). As best we can figure our lowering of the thermostat saved us. We are wearing sweaters but are getting used to it.

I have 21 payments left on the DW's CC. I am still looking for extra work to help get this paid off sooner. No luck yet.

I have kept spending to in budget items only so far. I am keeping my fingers crossed that no major problem arises.

Another $20

January 18th, 2006 at 08:00 am

Okay! I put another 20 dollars in this morning!

Rainy Day Ruminations!

January 15th, 2006 at 02:10 am

Today my wife called me on the carpet for not clipping a coupon from the local flyer. The coupon was for an item we use everyday!(Toilet paper). It is good to see my wife really getting into the spirit of things. My DD came to me today to put more of her allowance money into her savings account. DD is really becoming a monster saver instead of a spender. I am so proud of her attitude towards money and material things.

Well it is raining and the new roof is one heck of a blessing. I am still mad at the old contractor. The DW and I will soon be cleaning out the basement. We hope to sell a lot of old stuff and make some bucks while opening up much needed space. I'd like to finish part of the basement and intend to do a good deal of the work myself. The upstairs needs painting but I told the DW we should put it off till the spring.

I have been pretty good about not spending on out of budget items. Life seems pretty okay right now. Hey why not enjoy it for a while!

Going well so far.

January 12th, 2006 at 02:55 pm

I am quite worried. Things are going well so far this year. I am spending little if any on most days that is outside the budget. The CC payments are going in on a timely fashion. My wife is not spending on CC's,(at least to the best of my knowledge).

Why worry? It always seems that when things are going along well the other shoe drops. Maybe Jeffreys' dropping off my petition to the Japanese God of Wealth will make things go my way this year. Things are going along as planned at the moment!

A no-money week!

January 7th, 2006 at 12:30 am

I spent no money this week that was not in the budget. No lunches, gadgets, papers, nothing! Frankly I feel very comfortable with no-money days now. It is becoming like a game to me. When I go out I take a thermos of coffee and it is wonderful!

I remember being a kid when I had little if any money. I cannot help but recollect how happy I was. Maybe part of this debt free living thing can be seen as remaining child like without becoming childish! Oh the wonder of those days when a 25 cent Spaldeen could provide endless hours of fun! Life is so much more than possessions!

I intend to laugh and enjoy life. In the end the best things in life truly cannot be bought with money and that is a very comfoting thought!

Mall Madness and money musings!

December 30th, 2005 at 09:24 pm

I went at lunchtime to the local Barnes and Noble to buy a book for my DD. I have a gift card plus I have a 10% discount card. Well, the mall was so packed there were no spaces! I can't take any more of the madness so I will go back when the store first opens.

What are all these people doing at the mall? Can there be that many returns or sales after Christmas! Aggghhhh!
I am back to no money days and serious cost cutting in the budget. My wife still does not have the credit cards and the grocery bills are down to app. 650 a month. I know we can do better but hey it is progress for us. Rome, as they say, was not built in a day!

We now talk about money without screaming and yelling. It takes a lot of work and patience. I can see how marriages can be shattered by this issue. I'd suggest to people thinking about marriage to get on the same page before they tie the knot! The CC bill is now below 14k. I have 21 payments left unless I can scare up some extra money. I am praying some extra work comes along. I will continue to try and cut as that may be my only option to free up extra cash!

Well the New Year is almost here. The family is staying home for New Years Eve. I wish everyone financial success in the coming year!

Starting Challenge

December 30th, 2005 at 08:00 am

Well I have an manila envelope and I have inserted $20 dollars into it! Here we go!

Merry Christmas All!

December 24th, 2005 at 03:05 am

Well, the shopping, baking, and all the other things needing doing are done. I am just listening to some soft Christmas music and enjoying the evening. I wish peace, joy, and prosperity to everyone here. May your troubles be small and your triumphs many. Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! Happy Holidays!

Finished with the Christmas/Holiday shopping

December 15th, 2005 at 08:38 pm

I am finished shopping for gifts. I am here to to tell you I spent more than I had planned. My daughter saw something in a store window recently that she liked. She never requested it but I could see that she really liked the darn thing. Well, I being a pushover and a softy, went back today and got it for her.

I know I should be frugal, and most times I am, but seeing my daughter smile is priceless. She is a great student and she is a doll. She is well worth it!

I am exhausted though. Thank God I am finished with shopping. Smile

Freebie!

December 4th, 2005 at 05:19 pm

Just got two free theatre tickets yesterday along with a free meal! It will be a big treat to get out and enjoy life a bit while on this austerity budget. Yessss!

Great News!

November 27th, 2005 at 02:16 am

Just got my credit report and my FICO score from Equifax. No blemishes on my credit and all the info appears accurate. I scored an 803 on my FICO and my credit was rated excellent. Oh for the day when all debts are paid and I pay cash. Then I won't be at the mercy of creditors! Until then my FICO and credit report must be watched so as to keep interest as low as possible!

I am as happy as a pig in slop!

Update

November 23rd, 2005 at 12:35 am

Well, my wife is working with me on the debt reduction. Heck, she has even started clipping coupons! We have a plan to get rid of debt and it seems to be working. I have kept my personal purchases to almost nil.

I may have some extra work after the new year and that extra money will come in handy if everything pans out. I shall keep my fingers crossed. No major financial disasters are on the horizon. Everyone here knows that things come over the horizon so very quickly at times.

We have cut 75 to 100 dollars fronm the grocery bill. One of the things we are looking at is eliminating soda purchases. That could save us quite a bit of money, We will switch to water with a little lemon in it. We'll see how it works out.

So I hope to be in financial heaven by the end of 2007.

On Autopilot.

November 3rd, 2005 at 03:43 pm

Well, I have got a grip on the bills. DW's CC bill should be paid off in 19 months. We are having someone in to fix our roof and we have the money for the repair. I keep socking away every penny that I can. I have many no-spend days now!

THe bills are being paid and everything is up to date. The autopilot is on and the hope is for clear financial weather! Can another disaster be on the way? Hopefully the fates will be kind!

Rain damage and Insurance

October 23rd, 2005 at 04:05 pm

The good new is that the water damage to my ceiling and insulation is covered. Without a hole in the roof though personal property is not covered. We determined that our gutters were installed incorrectly and we reached an out of court deal for 1400 with the gutter company. DW birthday and a wedding sent the budget out of kilter. DD birthday is coming up. Christmas is coming. Sigh!

I am really not spending much money on myself and most days are no spend days! The wife and I are still struggling with our seperate ideas about spending but we are still talking. I suppose as long as we are talking things have a chance at getting better.

The rain does not fall mainly on the plain!!!

October 16th, 2005 at 02:02 am

Well, as many of you have seen on the news the northeast has recieved a great deal of rain. Guess who has water damage in the upstairs bedroom? Yes. That is right! It is me. Now I have to replace my bed, the carpeting, the ceiling, etc....etc...etc....

I have to file a claim on my homeowners. Either the people who did the roof or the gutters last year are to blame. Now the the only issue to be settled is one of blame. I can't get angry any more. You have to laugh when this stuff happens. What else can you do?

I have been fairly good and the wife and I have been shopping together. So far we have cut about 50 dollars out. It may not be much but it is a start!

In charge of groceries or not?

October 5th, 2005 at 03:21 am

The DW was very unhappy with my shopping excursion. I am not going to get into it. Suffice to say we will jointly go shopping! Arrrrggghhhhhhh!!!! It is at times like this the life of a hermit seems appealing. Well, then off we go together. Hopefully it works out. I am not in charge, per se, of the grocery shopping. Do I go to the mats on this one? No, I'll go with the DW and maybe we can work it out.

I guess the old saying is true:" If you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans for tomorrow".

Now in charge of grocery shopping, menus, and cooking!

September 30th, 2005 at 02:50 pm

Well, as has been noted in this journal, I have been after my wife to try and reduce the food expenses. MY wife and I had a terrible argument and finally I was told to shop and cook if I thought I could do it better. I am, starting October 2nd, in charge of menus, food shopping, and cooking. I suppose I have to put up or shut up!

My first act as head honcho in this department will be to cut out all the darn cakes and chips! Big savings there.
I will also cut out the purchase of prepared foods as much as possible. My first goal is to get the spending down from 800+ to 600 a month for a family of four. Many here have said I can do better and I hope to do so. The budget includes toiletries and other sundry items. I intend to use the 200 dollar savings towards my wifes CC bill.

I would greatly appreciate any helpful hints or advice and I certainly will be using the tips already posted.

Wish me luck!

Sealed the driveway and other chores.

September 25th, 2005 at 09:09 pm

I sealed and patched the driveway. I need to do a little touchup though. Installed a new door bell for the front and back doors. This week I'll be sanding and painting the metal rails on the front steps.(Hopefully). For less than a hundred dollars I have completed some projects around the house. I saved quite a bit by doing the work myself.

Friday is here!

September 23rd, 2005 at 02:19 pm

Thank God it is friday! There were no large bills this week except the 52.50 to fill the gas tank! I keep repeating the little mantra in my head, "don't spend, don't spend"! There are so many goodies I want to buy but I can't! SIGH!

Free dinner and a show tomorrow. My friend and his GF recieved a certificate for four dinners and tickets to a local theatre. Not a bad week at all.

NO spend weekend

September 17th, 2005 at 10:22 pm

This is a no spend weekend. I will be staying home and taking a few tapes out of the library. I was bad on Friday I spent 5 dollars on the Mega Lottery. The prize was 250 million. I know I have a better chance of getting struck by lightning while being attacked by sharks but I just had to buy tickets. The weekend is my make amends time.

Wife took her mom and the DD to the mall. AARRRghhhhhhhh! I have the credit cards but I still cringe. No major bills have come in so far. Well back to the grindstone. No extra work this weekend.

Getting things in order.

September 14th, 2005 at 05:19 pm

Well the extra work paid off. I have put the bulk of it in the emergency fund. I sent the first payment in on my DW's credit card debt. I now have a six month emergency fund and all of my cards paid off. I hope my health holds out as I am getting very tired. I have set the payments for 24 months. I'll put extra on it when I get more extra work!

I built the emergency fund for my peace of mind. Now when something comes up my budget won't be screwed up.

I know everyone says pay off all your debt first but I get sick if no money is saved.

Payments of 712.00 for 24 months + whatever extra I can get my hands on. That wil pay off DW's CC debt.

I am going to treat myself when everything is paid off. I'll save for it though!

Update.

September 12th, 2005 at 04:23 pm

I still have my checkbook balanced and there have been no late payments. I spent 115 for my mothers birthday. I did not spend a cent on myself. My sister bought me a 5 dollars worth of lottery tickets. With the way my luck runs I wish she had just given me the darn 5 dollars.

I really am sick of not being able to buy what I want. Damn credit card debt. It is just so frustrating to watch money I could be earning interest on going to the CC company! I shall, however, keep pushing forward. I should be where I need to be in about 22 months if all goes according to plan. I hope I get there!

Report of 9/7/05

September 7th, 2005 at 02:38 am

Well there was the expense of school supplies. Who knew that a graphing calculator would be so much. My wife went shopping and the school supplies and some clothes came to 175.00 dollars. My daughter needs new glasses and that will cost me. I don't know how much yet.

I just bought driveway sealer and will be doing the job myself. I used the less expensive sealer last time and it did not hold up. The cost for the sealer, crack filler, spreader, and de-greaser came to about 70 dollars. Some fella did our driveway a couple of years ago for 125.00. I was not home when the DW made the deal. What a rip off though. The stuff put down was so thin! Geez!

My sister dropped off a ton of left overs from a party she had. We froze a goodly amount and left some out for the week. I think we have 4 or 5 days worth of dinners. Leftovers are found money as far as I am concerned! I am not proud.

I really have spent no money on myself since the last entry. I am trying to have as many no-spend days as possible. One of my other sisters gave me a bunch of free rental coupons for Blockbuster. I am hoping to supplement our viewing choices which come from the library.

Well I keep keeping on!

Perspective

September 2nd, 2005 at 07:32 pm

I thought I had problems until I watched the Katrina victims in New Orleans and along the Gulf coast. I see now that what I have are really concerns. Losing everything and possibly loved ones is a problem.

I have a new perspective about my situation. In any case I now physically possess my DW's credit cards. I shall, with a little help from her, pay them off. I am physically exhausted as well as mentally by efforts to remedy my situation. The total damage was far more than I had first suspected. I told DW to spend only cash for things from now on. If we need to charge something, God forbid, it will be on my card.

We are discussing things a bit more after the initial arguments, Whew! The arguments got pretty intense! I filled up the car before the price changed. We are cutting down on any unnecessary trips.

Hopefully, my wife will learn to curtail spending when she physically must pay with actual money. We shall be sending a donation for the Katrina victims to the Salvation Army. (1-800-SAL-ARMY).

I may have concerns but I truly don't have problems. I have a new perspective!

Keep Saving.

August 31st, 2005 at 03:05 am

Well I keep saving and I keep paying down debt. I'd really like to go and buy a few things I want but I realize I don't need. Everyone but me is down with a cold. I went out and bought Progresso Chicken soup on sale for 1.25 a can.( You had to buy four). Wife and daughter love the soup.

I did go for a coffee and bagel today and bought for my two friends. The bill came to 11 and change. I felt a little better spending a bit. Hell, it felt wonderful to treat myself! That was all the money I spent today. My cards are at 0 and remain so. My wife's cards are being worked on. We have cut the grocery bill by about 75 dollars. I think we can cut more but the wife and I need to sit down and talk about how.

We are going to look for a new Insurance company for our cars and home owners insurance. I believe we can save a couple of hundred dollars if we pursue it. I am really beat mentally by the debt cycle. I just want to be out from under!

Not a bad week!

August 26th, 2005 at 11:19 pm

What an interesting week. I went to a book signing in Manhattan. Free eats and drinks! No, I did not buy the book. Met some interesting people. I split the tolls, gas and parking with two others so everything came out to just about 20 dollars.

I made 100 dollars from my hobby. I had never thought to make money this way until it was brought up here. The money will go into savings as will the coins from the sort and save bank,,,35.50.

Filling up the gas tank was 43.75. Ouch! LIfe Insurance 90.00. I bought a California rolls and two bottles of seltzer for 6.03. (Large bottles). That has been it for spending. I really have curtailed the day to day spending. Oh! I bought 1/2 gallons of milk for 1.29 a piece. A pretty good price for around here!

Still wrestling with my wife's debts. Headway coming soon I hope. Well, hope springs eternal!

Just another manic Monday

August 23rd, 2005 at 04:56 am

I only spent 1.50 for a cup of coffee today. Went to mom's house and had dinner. I ran some errands after work and got rewarded with good home cooking! No bills came in the mail today. Thank God! Don't now how much longer the extra work will hold out. Well I'll keep doing it until I can't physically or the work is not there. I freed up a few more dollars to pay down my wife's CC bills. I'm just gonna keep hitting it!

No money Sunday

August 22nd, 2005 at 01:04 pm

Took a walk with the family yesterday. We ate at home and played a board game in the evening. Best of all I spent no money. I have also switched to drinking water instead of soda. Water is better for me and I'll save money. Use it up! Wear it out! Make Due! Do without! I shall become debt free.

Making Headway

August 21st, 2005 at 12:33 am

Well the extra work has helped stabilize things. I will soon be reducing my wife's crdit card debt. She is now cooperating. I should be able to add a sizable amount to her monthly payment. I really have to stay on top of the situation.

Maybe there is some light at the end of the tunnel!


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